Your Best Friend Is Thinking About Getting Married. What Do You Do?

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Most men don’t tend to think about getting married quite as often as the average woman. Nonetheless, it is an aspiration that most people in love share. Moreover, it’s the common tradition for the guy to propose. We all have a number of friends that will tie the knot at some stage. Before they do, there’s a good chance that they may come to you for advice.

In truth, you’ve probably noticed that his relationship is getting pretty serious. Nonetheless, the declaration that he’s thinking about asking the question will often hit you for six. Not least because your response could have a telling influence on his next steps.

Being prepared will certainly put you in a better position. Here’s what you need to know.

Make Sure He’s Ready

Getting married is a major commitment that shouldn’t be taken lightly. As a responsible friend, you need to have a mature conversation to make sure that he truly wants this outcome. After all, it’s very easy to run away with an idea once it’s in your head. Stay supportive throughout, but just make sure that he has considered the situation fully.

You’re not trying to put him off; you’re just looking out for his best interests. If nothing else, these talks will reaffirm his decision. Assuming that he is still set on popping the question, it’s fair to say that congratulations are in order. Of course, you may want to hold back on the full celebrations until his partner says yes.

Still, he told you beforehand because he wanted some useful and honest advice. Provide it while remaining impartial and supportive of his decision, and you’ll be just fine.

Help With Planning

If he’s your best friend, there’s a good chance that he’ll ask you to be the best man. Even if he doesn’t, you should be prepared to help out in any way possible. Planning a wedding is a long and stressful task, so your extra pair of hands will be useful.

Your duties could cover a whole host of different ideas. From helping with venue planning to communicating with guests, no task should feel too big or too small. Ultimately, you just want to help the happy couple arrange the happiest day of their lives. Any positive impact you have here will be remembered forever.

Another great way to help is through financial support. Your friend doesn’t need another toaster on the big day. Why not offer to pay for the photographer or the flowers as an early wedding gift? Let’s face it; it’ll be a far more practical solution.

Send Him Off In Style

From a totally selfish perspective, the best part of the pre-wedding planning is organizing a killer party. It’s a huge part of the tradition, and these bucks party ideas should provide plenty of inspiration.

Timing is everything, and you don’t want to leave it too close to the big day itself. Meanwhile, you may wish to communicate with the bride-to-be. Checking if she has any limitations could be key to keeping you (and the groom) in her good books. Seriously, this is hugely important if you want the wedding to be as smooth as possible.

Above all else, you should let your friend know that marriage doesn’t change your relationship.  You may have to accept that you might not see each other quite as often, but that’s a part of growing up. As long as you’re still both there for each other when it matters most, you’ll be just fine.

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About Ray Gruenfelder

Creator and Founder of The Guy Corner NYC, the Guys lifestyle blog (Tech, Sports, Food, Drinks & much more) Married father of 2, this page is dedicated to "Guy Stuff". We will be sharing Tech tips, mobile app reviews, sports stories, talking about my favorite foods and adult beverages & a whole lot more.

Posted on March 31, 2017 11:26 am, in For The Guys and tagged , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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