We’ve all been in that situation before. The one where we’re out with our friends, and they all seem to pick up girls while we are standing on the sidelines. It can happen to everyone! However, when this becomes a regular occurrence, it’s easy to lose confidence. So, if you aren’t having any luck when it comes to the ladies, try thinking about the following tips.
Dress To Impress – Girls aren’t going to go after the guy who’s dressed in scruffy clothes and dirty shoes. If you want to try your luck with the ladies, you’re going to have to look the part. Try buying some clothes before a night out, and ask your friends what looks good if you aren’t too sure. It might seem a bit strange if you’re used to wearing something completely different, but it’ll make a world of difference.
Smell Nice – You could be making all the right impressions, but if you stink up the place, no girl will come near you. Before you go out, make sure you’re showering. Then, spray yourself with a reputable brand of deodorant. You can also add aftershave into the mix if you want to. I’ve never met anyone that has managed to pick up girls while smelling like a garbage bin! Make sure you don’t go out like this.
Be Confident – This is the area where so many men go wrong. If you’re a shy person, you’re going to struggle to pick up women easily. That’s not your fault, but how can you expect someone to come after you if you’re a reserved and shy character? You’ve got to be willing to get out there and show some confidence. It’s also an attractive trait of any man, so the shy ones often get the short straw. Work up your courage and it won’t be as hard as it seems!
Talk To People – Believe it or not, you actually have to talk to people if you want to pick up girls! Even if you’re in a group of friends, you’ve got to be willing to stray from the pack to find someone. Wait until the right moment and don’t embarrass yourself in front of a big group. Always be polite and kind and don’t make the mistake of being overconfident or using cheesy chat-up lines. Be yourself, and see where it takes you!
Be Positive! – If you’re going to resign yourself to the fact that you can’t pick up women, what’s the point of even trying? Confidence and positivity go hand-in-hand, so without one, you won’t get the other. You’ve got to be positive about your chances of meeting someone as well as being confident about yourself. If you get rejected, don’t take it to heart. Keep going, and remember that the right person will come along soon enough!
As long as you follow these tips, you’ll be able to find luck with the ladies eventually. Whatever you do, never give up. Sometimes, love is found in the most unlikeliest of places…